Meet Alaafin’s First Wife, Ayaba Abibat Nihinlola Adeyemi; How They Met Six Decades Ago

Meet Alaafin’s First Wife, Ayaba Abibat Nihinlola Adeyemi; How They Met Six Decades Ago

“In the end, we won’t remember the most beautiful face and body. We’ll remember the most beautiful heart and soul.”

The above quote could best described the love story between Alaafin of Oyo HIM Oba Lamidi Olayiwola Adeyemi and his first wife Ayaba Abibat Adeyemi. As they have remained strong as husband and wife after over 60 years of marriage.

Though it is an open secret that Alaafin has many wives. It is also a known fact that the highly respected monarch loves them young and light-skinned but not many people know much about his first wife, Ayaba Abibat Nihinlola Adeyemi.

Iya Adodo, as she is fondly called, is not just a wife but the pillar behind Alaafin Adeyemi. As the first wife, she has many traditional roles she plays in the palace. Not only that, Ayaba Abibat has been described by many as a woman with a large heart and quality characters. She is loving, warm and accommodating.

So enormous are her responsibilities as the first wife that Ayaba Abibat is said to have encouraged Alaafin to marry another wife, and today Alaafin has over 10 wives.

Alaafin, we exclusively gathered, met and married Ayaba Abibat when she was in secondary school, at age of 17. Their meeting was said to be through Alaafin’s late younger sister who was attending the same school with Ayaba sometimes in 1956. That was before Alaafin ascended the throne of his forefathers in 1970.

She was later to follow Alaafin to Lagos where he was working with an insurance company.

Ayaba Abibat learned the trade of sewing thereafter and became a trained tailor. They both lived in Lagos and fact, had three children, out of which Princess Folashade Adeyemi is the family third before Alaafin Adeyemi became king.

They later had additional two children, making it five children that their marriage produced. They have five children together, three Girls and two boys. All of the children are grown and highly successful. They are also blessed with many grandchildren.

Ayaba Abibat in her hay days is said to be resourceful and fashionable. Having studied and understood royalty. She knows what it means to be an Ayaba not just to an ordinary oba but a well-respected king in Yorubaland. Even up till now and despite her age, Ayaba Abibat Nihinlola still carries herself with so much respect and dignity befitting of her status.

She is well-loved and respected among other wives. She Is a role model to many and a perfect example of what a virtuous woman should be.
Interestingly too, Ayaba Abibat and Alaafin are of the same age.

Ayaba Abibat Nihinlola Adeyemi nee Oladele was born on 23rd December 1938. She is from the prominent Laguna Compound at Agunpopo Oyo.

Iya Adodo as she is fondly called in the palace is the mother of Alaafin’s first child (daughter) and the Aremo (first son).